Relationships and true well being


Our relationships are really a mirror of our wellbeing. They tell how well we are centered within or where we are, and how harmoniously we relate.  So the goal, of course, will be to create harmony in all relationships and to see the meaning and purpose of them.

Let’s talk about when relationships are stressful. Sometimes we want to keep away from people and situations saying, “This is too stressful for me, so I am going to move away from it in a way of escape. If I move away from it I will be fine.”  Little do we know that we can move away from situations but we carry them inside! They become a part of our soul. So we carry those stressful elements inside. Sometimes we may think, “Well, okay I am away from it so I am fine.  I am truly well.”

But we are really unstable inside because if this comes up in any space of ours, it’s volatile; it can erupt inside again. Is that real stability?  They are hidden very deep and they can rise at any time. In the world you cannot predict whom you will meet, what will happen in any situation. Also, when you move away from one kind of person thinking, “Okay, I am moving away from this individual so I can be safe,” but there are many individuals in our world of the same type. We are likely to face these individuals anywhere we go: at the work place or in social circles. What happens when we do?

When we have made enemies in the world the tendency is to blame everyone else around for what is happening. Look deep within and see if this is within your being; if it shows a weakness within your being. If what you don’t like outside of you, is inside of you and that’s why you are rejecting it. When you are angry about something outside, it can be perhaps that same quality lies within and you don’t like it within you, so you fight with it outside of you. We therefore need to deal with those issues inside until they can become clear on the inside, until we have no enemies anywhere, till we forgive from the inside, that we may be free in our consciousness.

True social consciousness is where we see all as divine; where we see meaning and purpose in relationships and how relationships can take us to another level of being. The truth is the more we grow, the more we inspire growth around us. The more of us who grow in a certain consciousness, the more impactful that group is in terms of contributing positively to our world.

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One Response to Relationships and true well being

  1. Nandy says:

    An incredible journey over these 40 days… now it’s time to reflect and realise it all.
    Thanks Madhavi for keeping up this daily discipline of posting. Hope to see you soon.

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